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The Myth of “Day-Of Coordination”

  1. Kathleen Kepler

    June 21st, 2016 at 6:08 am

    This was a great post and 100% true! I am changing my website as you mentioned because it is so very misleading, and the wording definitely needs to be changed in the industry. I was initially calling it “Month of Coordination.” I work with my brides from the time they sign their contract with me. I specialize in “Month of Coordination,” however, someone in the industry that I highly respect told me I may be losing business by calling it “Month of Coordination” because brides are not familiar with that terminology, they were more familiar with “Day of.” So I changed my website and put specializing in “Day-of-Coordination better known as “Month of Coordination.” However, I like “Wedding Management” much better!!! Thank you! I hope wedding planners all over will make the change so it can be properly called what it is in our industry and “Day-of” can be removed!!

  2. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 21st, 2016 at 10:51 am

    Agree Kathy. I hope many planners will make this change too.

  3. Renee Dalo

    June 21st, 2016 at 11:59 am

    Thanks so much Kathleen! I hope all of our fellow wedding planners make the change too! I’d love to see a real shift happen in our industry in this regard. Thanks for reading and commenting!

  4. Leann

    June 21st, 2016 at 7:24 am

    100% agree with this! We don’t just work on the day, there is a massive amount of planning before hand that goes into being an on the day coordinator. The brides also seem to think that we don’t really do much as an on the day coordinator and rather believe that we sit around the venue waiting to see if the DJ has arrived and whether the florist/decor company has set up correctly. Sadly in their eyes, they don’t see how big of a job it really is, and that our day actually starts at 05:00 in the morning sometimes, in preparation for their big day, and can sometimes end way past midnight. There’s alot of logistics involved! I think i’m going to make the switch to Wedding Management, thank you for the help on the SEO bit as well.

  5. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 21st, 2016 at 10:51 am

    So true Leann. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

  6. Renee Dalo

    June 21st, 2016 at 12:00 pm

    Yay, Leann! Make that change! WE have to educate our brides as to what we really do. We can be the change we need in our industry! I can’t wait to see how it benefits your business. Please keep me posted!

  7. Rachel

    June 21st, 2016 at 8:54 am

    Great post and I’ve heard the same from many others for awhile. The term doesn’t bother me at all. Granted it’s not exactly in line with the actual service being provided but for that matter, neither does full-service planning, when you factor in the variations of what each planner considers full-service. Gradually phasing in the change could help couples refer to it as Wedding Day Management over the course of time.

  8. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 21st, 2016 at 10:50 am

    True Rachel.

  9. Renee Dalo

    June 21st, 2016 at 12:02 pm

    Yes, Rachel. A gradual change is what I see happening. Also, I think it’s most beneficial if we remove the word “day” entirely from our coordination services. Wedding DAY Management still sounds like we are only working one day, which will all know isn’t true.

  10. Rachel

    June 21st, 2016 at 10:05 am

    Totally true!! “Day of” or even “month of” doesn’t even begin to encapsulate all that I do for my clients!! Wedding management is certainly a more appropriate term!

  11. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 21st, 2016 at 10:50 am

    Agreed Rachel. Thanks for your comment.

  12. Renee Dalo

    June 21st, 2016 at 12:02 pm

    Yes! Thanks for reading and commenting, Rachel!

  13. Laurie Wilcox

    June 21st, 2016 at 10:11 am

    Great article! I totally agree and will be changing my info to “Wedding Management” – sound more professional too.

  14. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 21st, 2016 at 10:49 am

    Thanks for commenting Laurie!

  15. Renee Dalo

    June 21st, 2016 at 12:05 pm

    Fantastic, Laurie! I can’t wait to see the positive change it will bring to your business! Please keep me posted!

  16. Dana | Elegantly Yours Events

    June 21st, 2016 at 10:30 am

    Incredible delivery and a much needed article Renée!!! WE are the industry!! This needs to be shared, implemented, reinforced by our entire community….


  17. Renee Dalo

    June 21st, 2016 at 12:06 pm

    Thank you Dana! HI-FIVE right back at ya! Thank you for your sweet comment. Please share with all your local planner friends! Let’s start a “language revolution”! LOL

  18. Hayley

    June 21st, 2016 at 12:03 pm

    This is fantastic. I 100% agree, and love the new term!

  19. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 21st, 2016 at 12:56 pm

    Thanks for commenting Hayley!

  20. Renee Dalo

    June 21st, 2016 at 6:08 pm

    Thanks Hayley! Thanks for reading and commenting!

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  23. Bonnie Marie

    June 21st, 2016 at 2:18 pm

    Brides who hire a wedding planner straight away acknowledge the value in the professional and let’s face it: they have the budget. Brides looking for ‘day-of’ assistance (help!) have a limited budget and are mostly your DIY customers who realize in the end that they may need some help putting all those pretty things together so they can enjoy the party.I ADORE calling it ‘Wedding Management’. It gives the right amount of importance and sophistication to charge the proper amount for ‘salvaging’ some bride’s big day.

  24. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 24th, 2016 at 10:52 am

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts Bonnie.

  25. Ashlee

    June 21st, 2016 at 7:56 pm

    Preach on!!! ???????? I can’t stop clapping! ???????? I have said this so many times! ❤️ Thank you for putting it so perfectly!!! My month of package just rode into the sunset on a unicorn!!!!

  26. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 24th, 2016 at 10:52 am

    Haha Ashlee! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

  27. Kate

    June 21st, 2016 at 9:16 pm

    Thank you! I literally just got home from back to back “Day of” Coordination sales meetings where I was exhausted by explaining how DOC is an industry term and what I actually do is XYZ from the point of hire. As I’m in the midst of a website overhaul, I’ll consider the Wedding Management verbiage.

  28. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 24th, 2016 at 10:53 am

    Thanks for commenting Kate!

  29. Tracy Dapp

    June 22nd, 2016 at 11:15 am

    Thank you for this! I agree this is 100% true!! I have updated my website & advertising sites to reflect this since when I receive an inquiry I always have to explain that there is no such thing as “day of” and anyone who says they just show up on the day of and have a successful event is delusional!

  30. Renee Dalo

    June 23rd, 2016 at 5:27 pm

    Yes, Tracy! So glad you made the switch!

  31. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 24th, 2016 at 10:53 am

    Yay Tracy!

  32. Erica Greenwold Reisen

    June 22nd, 2016 at 2:56 pm

    What about just using the term Wedding Coordinator? I’ve been thinking about this myself and as I am just starting my business, I don’t want to sell myself short.

  33. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 24th, 2016 at 10:49 am

    Erica, you can try out using “wedding coordination” and see how it works for you, especially during the sales process.

  34. Ruth Hauslein

    July 23rd, 2016 at 11:04 am

    Hi Erica!

    Personally, as a full service wedding business, I consider planning/consulting, design and coordination three totally different aspects to the whole process.

    Planning I refer to as the foundation…when you are in the very beginning of the process, choosing the venue and the vendors.

    Design, everyone knows this is the fun part! This is where all the details come into play.

    Coordination/Management, this is when everything comes together for the “day-of”.

    So, I think it depends on what your focus is. I also charge separately for each service and offer a full service package.

  35. Sam

    June 27th, 2016 at 7:34 am

    I prefer wedding consultant over coordinator, because, in essence, it’s consulting.

  36. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 27th, 2016 at 1:06 pm

    Thanks for commenting Sam!

  37. Allison

    June 29th, 2016 at 1:40 pm

    When I first started reading this, I got pretty annoyed. I was thinking, “why is she saying this? My services are not necessarily planning services, I do the coordination. I bring peace of mind to the couple on the DAY OF their wedding.” But, I continued reading because I knew there must be a good reason for it! And, sure enough you expressed so eloquently what I have been trying to articulate to myself and clients. The work truly does go beyond that single day. “Wedding Management” is so perfect, I can’t wait to update this in my chatter and in print! Thank you for articulating what I’ve been feeling!

  38. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    June 29th, 2016 at 3:21 pm

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts Allison!

  39. Renee Dalo

    June 30th, 2016 at 1:29 pm

    Allison, thank you for your honesty. I love it! And I hope the language change sparks a positive change in your business!

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  41. Ruth Hauslein

    July 23rd, 2016 at 10:52 am

    I am so relieved to hear this! I’ve only been in the industry for a little over a year now and I have to say that I have hated the “day-of” since the beginning! I am inspired by your boldness! When you wrote “Don’t be afraid to make bold changes in your businesses!”, I said to myself, now that’s what I need to hear. I’ve been slowly adding management into my wording all along, but was too afraid that it would be misunderstood. I’m not going to worry about it any more! I do hope that all new and seasoned planners will take on this new terminology…it’s fantastic! After all, like you said, it’s the truth and these clients should better understand what it is that we provide for them.

  42. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    July 27th, 2016 at 10:48 am

    Thanks for commenting Ruth!

  43. Renee Dalo

    July 27th, 2016 at 3:40 pm

    Yes, Ruth! I love it! “BE BOLD and Mightly forces will come to your aid!” I think about this quote a lot in my business, and I believe it. I am so glad you are taking big steps!

  44. Kylie Forcinito

    August 4th, 2016 at 9:37 pm

    Such great advice! I immediately updated my website :).

  45. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    August 10th, 2016 at 9:46 am

    Great Kylie! So glad this was helpful.

  46. Tara Leslie

    August 23rd, 2016 at 7:54 pm

    Great post, and so true! I’ve recently set up on my own as a planner, but have been planning weddings for venues for nearly 20 years. I’ve had to deal with a large number of “day of” coordinators who seriously had no idea what details they were supposed to be managing, as they were often working from a last minute list hurriedly scribbled out by the bride.

    The planners who really had control were, as you said, the ones who had been in much longer-term contact with the couple, had been involved from much earlier in the process and were really involved in all aspects of the wedding.

    As I said, I am just setting up on my own as a planner, and would love to share this blog if you don’t mind, I think it has some valuable information.

  47. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    August 26th, 2016 at 12:27 pm

    Thanks for your comment Tara. Feel free to link to this post from your blog.

  48. Barb

    September 12th, 2016 at 11:27 pm

    What is the average price most of you “Day/Month of Coordinator” charge ?
    And what are the “general duties: you all include. Thank you

  49. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    September 14th, 2016 at 12:52 pm

    Barb, thank you for your comment. These 2 posts will help answer your questions: and

  50. Dave Fortin

    September 24th, 2016 at 3:33 pm


    Thank you so much for this article. I am actually just in the process of getting my Wedding Planning license and am working on creating a website to have it ready to go once my course is complete and am only familiar with the term “Day-Of”. In fact, that’s what I planned on putting on my business cards as well, but after reading this, I will be rewording this on everything. “Wedding Management” sounds much more professional and, in my eyes, much more appealing as well.

    Thank you again!

  51. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    September 27th, 2016 at 10:18 am

    So glad this was helpful for you Dave!

  52. Faythe Emens

    May 7th, 2017 at 11:07 am

    Excellent! I’ve struggled with the terminology of Day-of for years. I’m going to start using Wedding Management Services. Thank you!

  53. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    May 9th, 2017 at 11:38 am

    That is great Faythe! So glad this article helped you.

  54. Cheryl, Events by Cheryl

    August 22nd, 2017 at 2:25 pm

    I like the idea of using Wedding Management. I agree that Day Of may not be the best terminology. It usually ends up being way more work than one day! My question is, if you use Wedding Management, how do you differentiate to your clients the differences in your packages? And how do you stick to just “Day Of” services?

  55. Planner's Lounge - Debbie

    August 23rd, 2017 at 10:19 am

    Thanks for commenting Cheryl. You have to be very specific in what services are provided. If you are providing wedding day management, your contract will have exactly what you are providing before the wedding and on the wedding day. Then it is up to you to only do what you are contracted for.

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  60. Michelle

    February 4th, 2019 at 3:20 pm

    I never offered day of but struggled with terminology for 8 weeks out planning! I like your ‘wedding management “, thank you ????

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