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Why Being Uncomfortable is Good
It’s normal to feel uncomfortable when we stretch ourselves beyond what we’ve achieved before such as planning bigger events, creating proposals with increased prices, creating new business strategies, going to a conference where we don’t know anyone, working with unfamiliar venues, launching a new venture, and the like.
There’s always turbulence right before you transcend to the next level of growth (either in your personal life or in your career). So embrace that discomfort, recognize that it’s just a feeling – and it too shall pass. Don’t allow that unease to deter you or entice you off track. Remember that every athlete has the jitters before the big game. By becoming comfortable with being uncomfortable, you’ll remove its power. Uncomfortable is just that…uncomfortable. It’s not the end of the world and it’s not extreme pain.
When was the last time you were uncomfortable? What happened after the situation or event was over? (hint: you were comfortable again, you didn’t die and you grew from the experience)
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Hi, Yes, this is so true! I’ve been pushing my business to the next level, increasing my prices, working at more prominent venues, larger budget weddings, etc. It is a scary feeling, but once you do it and all works out great, you get such a great feeling of satisfaction!!
That is so great Kathy! Good for you!!
Thanks for this reminder! It’s a constant struggle when launching a business and it’s reassuring that other people (even seasoned veterans) feel the same way!
That is very true. I never thought about it like that! Thanks for the different perspective. 🙂
I am so uncomfortable right now, but moving full steam ahead. Success does not come without change. I will certainly let you know how it goes! Your articles are always inspirational and spot on. Thanks Debbie for pouring so much heart and soul into Planners Lounge and sharing your knowledge with the communitry!
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Thank you for the support and encouragement Kelli. I greatly appreciate it and I’m so thankful to have you in our community here!
Love the post, now when i feel nervous Ill remember im just growing from it.
Thanks for your comment Nicole!
Thank you for posting this, Debbie! I just read the following related article yesterday: http://zenhabits.net/discomfort/
Clearly this is a subject I need to work on this year, so thank you for the reminder!
I read that too D Y. I had this post scheduled since last week and thought it was so funny that Zenhabits posted a similar concept. Thanks for sharing!