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Planner Wars: Who’s In Charge Of This Wedding?
She wants her best friend to design the flowers and her aunt to make the cake. They expect their wedding to look like a professional put it together, but they push you to use non-professionals vendors.
How do you regain control of the process?
What are the steps to achieve a realistic consensus?
What do you do when they insist on using non-pros?
Is it the couple? They hired you. Is it the parents? They paid for your service. Is it the venue? They have their own set of rules. Or is it you…the wedding planner?
In an ideal scenario, there would only be one person in charge. But as a wedding planner, we all know better. You are hired as your client’s advocate. You act on behalf of your wedding couples. You try to see all sides and make decisions based on what your clients would want without alienating all parties involved.
Even though we’ve moved away from the term wedding consultant and towards terms like wedding planner or wedding director, the term consultant is an accurate job description. Consultant means to be an adviser, expert, specialist, or authority.
To get buy-in from all parties on wedding decisions, you often work as the neutral third party. You keep the peace and make sure everyone gets what they want.
At the end of the wedding, you will be celebrated or blamed for how everything came together. Do your best when working with difficult vendors and challenging wedding clients. Remember that you are not a magician!
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What a great list of resources. I’m learning so much from this article. It’s definitely important to remove your personal emotions when working the wedding.